Free · 12 Questions · 2 Minutes

Where do your relationships
actually stand?

Twelve questions. About two minutes. A clear, honest score across the dimensions that decide whether a relationship holds — and a way to find what’s underneath it.

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Start Your Story

Twelve quick questions about how satisfied you are across the areas that carry a relationship — closeness, safety, fairness, repair.

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See Where You Stand

Your Relationship Snapshot: a score for each dimension and one overall — where connection is holding, and where it is under strain.

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Go Deeper (Optional)

The snapshot tells you where you stand. Keep going and the full battery finds the pattern underneath it — what you do, what drives it, and the beliefs running beneath both.

Ready to see where you stand?

About two minutes. Private, and specific enough to be worth the time.

Before We Begin...

Your name helps personalize your results. Nothing is shared publicly.

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Your Relationship Snapshot

Overall Satisfaction Score

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out of 100

Where Your Relationship Feels Most Strained

Satisfaction by Domain (sorted low to high)

Early Signals

Relational dynamics sampled across 13 dimensions — indicative, not diagnostic

How to Read This

We are not going to tell you what your number means. Cut points that sort people into “crisis” or “thriving” only mean something once they come from a real sample, and ours do not yet. Publishing them anyway would be putting a label on your relationship that we cannot stand behind.

What the number is good for: comparing it to itself. Take this again in a month and the direction of travel is real information. And the order of the domains above — lowest first — tells you where to start, today, without needing any cut point at all.

Your Snapshot Shows the Surface.
The Full Assessment Goes Deep.

Take the full NRSI — four sections that trace where you stand back to what you do, what drives it, and what you believe.

  • Light Intake + demographic context
  • Baseline Pulse emotional check-in
  • The full NRSI battery — four sections, results building as you go
  • Comprehensive individual + couple report
  • Partner invite for side-by-side comparison
  • Personalized program recommendations
Start My Full Assessment — Free

Around 35 minutes, and you see your results take shape as you answer. Your snapshot answers carry forward — you never repeat one.

Joseph Follette Jr., LMFT headshot

Joseph Follette Jr., LMFT

Founder, NeuroSpire Labs & Lifestyle Therapy & Coaching

A licensed marriage and family therapist with nearly three decades of practice, Joseph is the creator of the NORM model — Recognize, Rewire, Reinforce — a framework that turns emotional insight into lasting behavioral change. Through NeuroSpire Labs, he is building technology that makes relational rewiring accessible beyond the therapy room.

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