Where are things, really?

Seven quick questions. No sign-up, no advice, no scores about you — just an honest look at what's furthest from where you want it.

Joe Follette Jr., LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Nearly three decades sitting with couples and individuals. I built the NORM model — Recognize, Rewire, Reinforce — because insight on its own does not change a marriage; a small thing done on purpose does.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) · ordained minister · creator of the NORM model.

Why you keep getting the same results

What you're looking at is one pattern showing up in five places. The way you move when things get hard doesn't change much between your marriage, your money and your work — it just costs you differently in each. That's why fixing one area at a time tends not to hold: the pattern comes with you.

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